I just wondered if any one had gone no contact had ever worked for anyone to get their ex back? I can see how it also works to get over an ex as well.
What happened was I had been very depressed for the last 4 months of our relationship, everything had got to much for me. My ex partner and friends said I needed help but I didn’t listen. I generally pushed my ex away and got jealous about things he was looking at on social media (which I don’t even care about now but at the time I was angry)
He split with me. A week later I finally got help for my depression, as I had been suicidal for a while and made an attempt. I had a hospital stay and got meds and counselling.
I have been home for a while and am getting my life back together. I am slowly getting well. I am able to do tasks now and I don’t feel suicidal. And the new meds are helping I think.
I still love and miss my ex. I’ve apologised quite a few times by text and explained what happened and what help I got. I asked to maybe try again very slowly or talk. He didn’t want to and just wanted to be friends.
I must admit I did a bit of begging. But any contact with him got my hopes up and hurt. And he barely spoke to me by text. So I decided to not contact him anymore. In the hope I can get over him or the slim hope he may miss me and want to try again. It would give us both space to think. And I didn’t want to annoy him.
I do realise it’s a really small hope. But has anyone got back with an ex like this? I have changed my behaviour and I can see what went wrong.
We were a very loved up couple and best friends before the split. I know it’s his decision not to be together I am trying to be mature.
I worry how he is as and what he’s going though.
Thanks sorry it’s so long