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OH just left hand hold please

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stuckinthewrongbody · 12/07/2019 21:56

weve not been getting on I think I have kind of fell out of love with him he patronises me and belittles me.
I told him today that I cant do it anymore and he didn't believe me so I removed photos from my facebook of us and changed it from engaged to single. This is where he finally realised I was being serious he took my phone and smashed it up. This is the fourth phone he has smashed.

Ive been begging him for hours to leave after fighting back and fourth hes finally left. He said hes going to tell his family what im really like and hes coming to get the dcs at 8 in the morning.

He's took the car so I cant go anywhere and left his work van I have no way of contacting my mum im stuck.

so sorry if my grammar is awful just dug out an old laptop with barely any key pads!!

don't have a clue what to do.

OP posts:
Weenurse · 13/07/2019 00:53

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Wallowitzing · 13/07/2019 04:28

I hope you managed to get some sleep OP. Good luck for today.

foreverhanging · 13/07/2019 07:30

Hi op hope you manage to get out with kids today x

QueenOfTheCroneAge · 13/07/2019 08:00

Morning OP, How are you?

stuckinthewrongbody · 13/07/2019 08:34

morning everyone im ok hes coming to get the kids after work about 1. I have managed to speak to my mum on skype and my 40 yr old brother has moved back in so I cant even stay there long term (small 2 bed flat)

I know I can stay here as he is going to stay at his mums but I just don't want him to have that hold over me. I feel so alone I have no help at all.

I keep thinking about all the things he said to me yesterday that im a rubbish mum and hes scared about leaving the kids with me. Its really making me doubt myself I don't know how I can look after them without him.

OP posts:
QueenOfTheCroneAge · 13/07/2019 08:44

Abusive men say all sorts to grind you down, and justify their vileness. My ex husband told me I was ugly. I barely left the house I felt so bad. I was actually very pretty, as I see from old photos. The power of words eh? That's all they are though, just hurtful words to keep you down.

stuckinthewrongbody · 13/07/2019 09:00

wow what a bastard! Its crazy how you start to believe these things im normally quite a strong person but he really makes me doubt myself.

OP posts:
notapizzaeater · 13/07/2019 09:24

He's banking on that, making you doubt yourself, question everything.

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