I just need to get this out of my head, Once I do i hope then I can think clearly. I have 2 DC and married for 11 years now. DH has been through a lot, which has built to him now suffering with anxiety. I can see he is in pain, but he wont talk. I ask and try to start converstations about how he is emotionally but he closes it down. His way of coping is to work more, not just his job but help friends out and do hobbies. I am left to look after the kids. I am struggling myself, having had depression in the past couple of years. I tried to say I need help, but all he said is what do you want me to do? Then has sat there watching me clean up, put washing out to dry and put pots away with out even helping. I am going to be at home with the DC over the summer and he does not see that working on weekends is an issue, He gets little time with the kids, and when he is at home he is on his laptop. He adores the DC I know that for certain, but he is not engaged i the family. He seems to find reasons to be anywhere else. How do I get him to hear I need help? Hoe do I get him to make the 3 of us a priority? I am not sure how much longer I can do this.