I'm getting some super mixed messages at the moment from my partner and I'm looking for a little advice (outside my circle of friends who actually know him and therefore has opinions already kinda thing)
The is a side to him at the moment which is like he's pulling away, he defo don't contact me as much as he used to via call/text and rather than talking to me about certain ideas or plans I'm now finding out about them once they're done. Nothing major, but I just feel a bit out of the loop at the mo. The time we do spend together again feels a little strained, sometimes I feel like he's not listening to me or taking in to consideration my thoughts or feelings to certain things. All of this is a quite new occurrence.
On the other hand though, he still talks about booking holidays for the end of year (not cause I suggest it, he brings it up outta choice) and he's still inviting me along to things with his mates and everything so that side of things hasn't changed.
The defo feels like the has been a shift though. I don't know how to attack it. I don't wanna bring it up and make it into something it's not, I also don't wanna hound him if he's feeling a little confused right now.
I do wanna talk to him about it but he's never been the best with those kinda convos and if he's feeling something weird me forcing him to talk about it prob won't help.
Anyway, basically what is my next move? Stay quiet, give him a bit of space, attack the subject!?