Can I get a vote...

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Would you date someone who is separated (3 yrs) but still married and has a young child? I’m nearly 30, childless, never married

I would casually. But would want to know why they weren’t divorced and what was being done about it before it got serious.

No.

Would depend on why they’re still married and if you would be willing to.

No as if they are not divorced yet (and why not?) there is all that to come.

No

Yes because it takes years to divorce but would depend if they’ve started it and if they plan on it. I was separated 2.5 years before my divorce was sorted because it was messy and it was his way of keeping control over me and there was no way I wasn’t going to wait that long to start dating

Why so many nos? How old is his child exactly?

Completely dependant in the reasons, how you both feel about each other and his relationship with his ex wife and more importantly little one.

It's not black and white to decide on that little information.

What do you want?