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my. boyfriend logged on to a dating site

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orangesun35 · 07/07/2019 23:18

hi new too all of this ...just need a bit of advice .me and my boyfriend we live together for a short time when i found out he had actually logged on to a dating site ..he will not admit to this at all ...which gets me really mad he's not been honest.a bit of back ground he constantly makes remarks about other women too.but only on the tv ... not so much sexual remarks .remarks like she has the best legs I've ever seen .remarks like that.i find disrespestful I have been in tears a few times .any advice please .not sure if he was actually to talking to anyone on the site.... a bit more back ground information .we actually met on this site .I deleted my profile. he never did not think to much about it .never thought it was a issue .or thuoght he would actually log on.

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orangesun35 · 09/07/2019 20:07

Update .... he’s been kicking outside he wants to come in and get his stuff . But l don’t want him to set foot in the house .. he’s banging on the front door . Kicking the front door ... said he will put my windows in . I’ve told him calmly . Your not getting in . I have told him l
Will get his stuff together for tomorrow and leave it in the shed in the garden . Put he’s like a fucking mad man . Calling me all the names under the sun . He was trying to be nice . First asking to let him
I’m so we can talk . I don’t want to talk cos he doesn’t think he’s done anything wrong help ....

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Lefty1 · 09/07/2019 20:47

Call the police OP ASAP! and tell him that’s what you’re going to do ! Is he still kicking off?

beenwhereyouare · 09/07/2019 21:08

Call the police. Don't threaten, actually do it!
This way you have a record of his behavior.

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orangesun35 · 09/07/2019 21:09

No .hes gone now .thank god told him he’s stuff will be in the shed tomorrow.side gate open .

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Luckingfovely · 09/07/2019 21:11

Well done you for staying strong. You did the right thing. And he's shown you his true colours now - a lucky escape.

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orangesun35 · 09/07/2019 21:48

Can’t believe he’s calling me names outside my house .i have done nothing wrong .he thought he would go to his mums and show me,thought it was just a tiff .and we weren’t over. Cheeky fucker

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SandyY2K · 09/07/2019 22:40

This man is a total waste of space. He is stuck at home with his mum and needs a woman to live off.

Never allow a man to bully his way into living with you.

Once his stuff is out to collect..block him and never look back.

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orangesun35 · 10/07/2019 19:37

Thanks ,his own mother asked me one day .how are you getting on .? Then she told me....they all leave him you know ... his own mother

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Scorpiovenus · 16/07/2019 10:47

Then he needs to be the ex boyfriend pronto

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 16/07/2019 11:39

You sound very young. Do you have someone who can stay with you in real life tonight? Please do not hesitate to call 999 if he comes back and kicks off again. Please also get your locks changed in case he has a copy of the key.

He sounds like an absolute wanker to be honest. Lucky escape indeed.

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