I am a man, in a relationship for 6 years. We have children from previous relationships. We have one little one together.
I love my partner, we get on so well, when it works, but life is complicated and it's not happy a lot of the time. There are some deep issues that whenever we talk it results in rows. I work ft and its a stressful job. I defo do my fair share at home. I own the house, I pay the bill, I have no idea what she earns or spend the money on, if I ask Its not my business. I get accused of treating the children differently.. Which I acknowledged I probably do subconsciously.. But I fine my partner so devisove between our children. I am undermined consistently. I have lost a lot of friends, and don't have anyone I feel I can talk to.
She hates my family and I think the feeling is mutual.. There's no chance of building bridges there.
She is always in conflict.. With me, my family, my ex, people at work..
I have a cao for my children from a previous relationship and I think she resents having to care for my children but won't admit it.
I keep thinking it's over, but I can't move out as I own the house and neither of us could afford for her to rent. We've talked about seperating or staying together and living apart, which could work for us, but we can't get off the line. I just feel miserable. I don't want to be at work, I don't want to be at home. And I don't feel I have anyone to talk to.