house hunting gets stressfull and ending in fight

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I and my husband are not able to close a single house deal for the past 2 years .Something or the other comes up , either the house I choose he doesnt like and wiseversa or his health which is not so good for the past 1 year (The result is we always loose the good house )Its a negative aura that surronds us .Is this an indication of a bad relationship or not buying house at present at all , be on renting for still some time ?? ,Oh my god taking to him becomes so stressfull when its regarding buying property .We have been married for 10 years .
I am really stressed ,please advise

This is a bit baffling. I'm sure someone will come along soon and say something like now is not a good time to buy, Brexit etc.

Do you both like where you're living at the moment?

Location restrictions?

Are you both equally contributing financially?

Do you have children?

Thanks for the reply, yes we like where we currently live .I am contributing the deposit and my hubby will be taking the mortgage, I can contribute in mortgage too but he says it's worth saving that money for future .Yes we have one child who goes to primary school now. Basically we are trying to relocate outside the city Tits a big move and we always wonder how much money we should put in the house .Since both of us have no experience in house buying and as we are not from here so there is no extended family or cousins to guide us and I think its more of this tricky situation thats causing the trouble and fights .

Is the issue that one or other if you panics when reality of buying gets closer ?

Or do you want completely different things from a property/ location?

Maybe both make a list of your wants and need and then compare ?

For example my DH was full on into cute thatched cottage with beams and me I wanted more contemporary.

In reality when we have gone for a rental as a start off, the choice is a modern barn Conversion- has beams but is contemporary too