Does anyone know whether it's possible to communicate on Match without it showing up when you were last on?
The ex boyfriend (so it really doesn't matter in lots of ways) kept his match.com profile live while we went out together. I had no idea but a friend mentioned it after a year. I asked him to close it, he said it was an accident yadda yadda. We split up in January when he dumped me by text for not trusting him. Then it turned out he was still online. He turned it off in March (dating someone new presumably) and then has just turned it on again (my friend keeps an eye on him now).
I just wondered whether he would have been messaging/cheating as well as enjoying the winks/likes. Bit pointless really but we work together and so it has nagged away at me rather.
His profile says he's loving, decent and loyal 