aw someone’s post about receiving a Facebook message about her partner cheating. It wasn’t me but I did that. Ex partner cheated on me . We have 2 children. I threw him out, someone sent me a message when I was pregnant, he denied it of course. Cut a long story short, after 15 years, found pay as you go phone and chucked him out. I had never trusted him but hoped he’d changed. 2 years later He met someone online, moved in with her a year ago. The children go once a week if that but they really like the girlfriend , in fact don’t like going if she's working and they have to be alone with their father. At least I know she’ll stop him shouting at them. I like her. After 4 years I decided to try online dating and went on Tinder. The first person I saw was him. I knew he was up to his old tricks. That’s a month ago.q He’s 44 and she’s 37, no kids, never been married. I was angry, made a fake face/ok and messaged her to warn her. I told her not to tell him ut check his phone, look for a pay as you go mobile and see if he’ll answer his phone with her in the room. I also sent a screenshot of his photo which clearly shows a recent photo. Now I’m wondering if it was the right thing to do. She has been through the same thing before and suffered because of that. I don’t want her to waste her life on a pile of sh**. She's young, will waste her life and find out too late as I did. I know part of me wants him to suffer and that’s why I did it, so it was malicious but she deserves better. She’s young enough to have a family, he doesn’t want any more, has had a vasectomy, but she’s good with kids but now regretting I told her , as she is a lovely. girl and maybe she won’t want to leave him but will never trust him again. She would have found him out anyway as he’s so arrogant that he won’t think she’ll not trust him and he’ll slip up. His photo show his real name, age and who he works for so very easy to find, arrogant or what!