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What's happens to my job

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PurpleStripes · 02/07/2019 00:07

If I go into a refuge?

I do t know if this is the right topic so apologies if it's not. I can't find an answer on google, I'm aware I can call and ask but I'd rather know now 🤷🏻‍♀️

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PurpleStripes · 02/07/2019 12:18

Bumping for the daytime crowd.

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RebootYourEngine · 02/07/2019 12:20

Why would anything happen about your job? Are you moving far away or some?

PicsInRed · 02/07/2019 12:21

Do you mean because he knows where you work and could access you there/follow you from your job?

FuriousVexation · 02/07/2019 12:30

How long would be the travel time? Can you access via public transport?

I would call your work and speak to your line manager, explain the situation and ask can they support you through this time with reduced hours or what you need.

NotSuchASmugMarriedNow1 · 02/07/2019 12:30

Nothing will happen to it you can continue to work. If your struggling emotionally at the moment you could ask for some unpaid compassionate leave

PopWentTheWeasel · 02/07/2019 13:09

Having had a work colleague go into a refuge from work, their line manager arranged the place for her after she arrived at work in a state of collapse, I can confirm that nothing happened to her job. We flagged it with the police, in case the husband reported her missing and officers turned up at work to investigate her "disappearance".

PurpleStripes · 03/07/2019 19:58

Thank you. I'm already a 90 minute commute and anymore I wouldn't be able to manage. I also have a DS and just leaving will mean my childcare options will go from 1 to 0.

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Keaneno1fan · 04/07/2019 07:07

Hello so by being in the refuge you woildnt have access to any childcare? How old is your son?

eve34 · 04/07/2019 07:17

I'd imagine your gp would sign you off sick for a period and you can make arrangements for childcare. Or look at your options. Don't let it be the reason to keep you where you are.

PurpleStripes · 04/07/2019 07:24

No childcare no. I've been off for quite a long time with illness due to go back very soon. DC is 8

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