Well not really just a bad week. A long term friend seems to be ditching me, a workman has buggered off and hasn't finished the work I've paid for just feeling a little stressed.
I've been seeing my DP for 18 months we don't live together. We see each other once during the week and the weekend.
On Sunday he ran in a race and I Marshalled. I had said before hand that I would like us to get something to eat after but when he finished the race at 12 he said I will see you next week.
I was upset but apparently he hadn't heard me saying that that's what I'd like but at the time he agreed. I was feeling low and just knew this was going to happen.
He then said he would go for something to eat. It ended up being a heated discussion as I felt the weekends we were having were getting shorter and shorter. He only lives up the road. I understand he is busy and has things to do in the end I decided to go for a coffee and I just said we should just agree on all of our plans for the weekend.
The thing that bugs me is he is a very intense person and is always saying how much he misses me, loves me and he is very insecure I've had to give him a lot of reassurance.
There have been other occasions where he has said he hasn't read or heard something I don't think it's deliberate.
I'm going through the menopause and I feel as if he would have to be like that to me yesterday. Perhaps I came across as down but he said not as I'd apologised about moaning about my week. I know I'm feeling sensitive but I don't get how he can miss me so much and then want to cut things short. I feel as if I'm getting manipulated.
When he's done this before and I've been surprised he's going home so early I've said nothing and then when he comes back to see me he's so over the top and intense.
I think I'm going to step back from this. Any advice would help.