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What do I do? Confused

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Hg89 · 01/07/2019 19:06

My soon to be ex husband and I have been separated a year. We’re divorcing after his erratic behaviour, he became a monster to me. He would threaten to have me and our 3 yr old son thrown out the marital home. Hated me etc... recently he been ultra nice. He’s now signing the house over to me solely, offered to pay for me and DS to go on holiday asked if he could come I said no. Last night opened up to me and said he regrets everything he did, he had a break down and spiralled out of control. He wishes he didn’t take everything out on me, is miserable, is truely sorry for everything. Asked me to call him later tonight so he can explain why he treated me so badly etc. Is this just to clear his conscience for his own ego or genuine. I’ve heard rumours from mutual friends he wants me to take him back. But they don’t say it out loud. More like laugh when asked they don’t want to say yes. I’m going to call him later see what he says. Thoughts anyone?

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MarieG10 · 01/07/2019 19:10

Someone who has behaved so badly is unlikely to completely change. He may control it, but he has it in him. After all of that I would not be inclined to even consider getting back together will him. You have made the break, you are about to experience some true relief from him.

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