My ex was a horrible abusive man. It was mainly emotional, and the physical never got further than him punching walls and throwing things at the wall next to me. I got an ex parte non molestation order against him and he's not seen his son now for months. This is due to some real safeguarding issues. He's only a baby and not really safe to be on his own with him. SS have recommended he has no contact due to previous behaviour.
I've had the response to my non molestation order, and he's made up so many lies. Made out that he's Dad of the year. That he supported me financially and emotionally. It's sickening to read.
The truth is, he was financially controlling, emotionally abusive, angry, aggressive, and manipulative person. How I didn't see it whilst I was in the midst of it, I do not know.
I'm now terrified that I don't have a huge amount of evidence to back this up, and he's so charming that he will manipulate the court in to thinking he's a wonderful person and I don't need protection from him.
I'm really quite scared of him and since the non mol has been in place I've been free from his abuse.
AIBU to be concerned about the court buying in to him and his lies? Does anyone know if non mols are easily contested? I'm so scared to have to sit in court and listen to his very convincing lies about me.