So I have my uncle dying of cancer 4 weeks to live, my 98 yr old grandmother in the same hospital also about to pass and my step father just been given a life threatening condition.
When my partners dad died 9 years ago I did everything to support him. Yet he’s not reciprocating and being very moody. I asked him if it was triggering the death of his dad he said yes. Which I totally get but I can’t be emotionally supporting him with all this going on. When I try to explain to him everything that’s going on with various situations he gets very defensive and doesn’t want to hear it. I feel like he’s making it all about him instead of supporting me. I’m having to deal with our three kids instead of him stepping up and taking charge.