Advice on my bf.. Are these abuse signs? Please help

[Felicityx01]

Hi

So I've been with my bf for 5 months now and I seem to be the only one making an effort in this relationship.. I've met some of his family, I always drive to his place as he doesn't drive, I always ask him when he's next free and when his days are from work, I say to him I really would like us to make plans for a day out.
In return he makes no effort to get transport to spend time with me at my place, I say to him I would like you to meet my Family and seems like he's blowing me off with any excuse, I'm mostly always the one to text him first in the morning, also he's lazy and does marijuana, now we're not speaking at the moment as he got moody with me as I was busy sorting my DS out and did not text back within 10 mins.. and yet he can go hours sometimes 12 hours without speaking to me and I don't get moody as I understand he's busy at work etc
He says he loves me and wants a future with me and kids etc but I'm not sure if this is true and actions speak louder than words..
Please can I have some of your advice on what to do shall I not speak to him until he gets in contact with me or should I end the relationship?

End it! It's only 5 months - cut your losses before you invest any more

Why set your bar so low?

Is this man good enough for you? The best you can do for the rest of your life? I sincerely hope not, dump!

It’s more of the same from me! Get rid! You want someone to be with. He certainly doesn’t come across as a keeper to me. Waaayyyy too many warning lights flashed as I read your post. As others have said - read it back for yourself. What would you advise?

Sounds like he's not actually that interested in you , sorry. If you really care about someone you make the effort and he is making zero effort.
Plus do you want your son around someone who smokes drugs?

Just cut your losses, it's only been 5 months and he is already treating you like that!