This IS a red flag isn't it?

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Hi,

Looking for perspective as not 100% clear on this..

Chatting to a guy I've met last night, and he made a joke within a conversation that "I would date a man if he was married." I said "What?!?!"

And "no I wouldn't ever do that" and never have. I've been cheated on by someone I really loved, that's my experience of infidelity but I most certainly have not or will ever cheat!

Today I can't get it out of my head it's really changed my feeling literally like the wind. Firstly he can't really think much of me to think this! Secondly it's like a red flag for some reason it makes me think he's hiding something OR speaking to someone else alongside me and has us mixed up!

But then rationally he could have just made a genuine mistake and I'm overthinking it?

This isn't good is it?

Thanks

And he says 'my bad' and plays squash like some sort of Patrick Bateman.

Yep.

If it wasnt doomed before, "My bad" killed it.

I love your reply. You took the wind out of his sail there. He might reply in 24 hours when he's had chance to think of an excuse.

Yes red flag. Two red flags.

He sounds in a committed relationship and he sounds like he has little respect for your morals.

Not worth it

Seriously, I wouldn’t give him any head space. He’s probably having the same conversation with 10 women and at least 1 will bite.