Boyfriend broke up with me on Monday, I want to ask him if he’d be willing to meet up with me at the weekend to talk things through. Is this a bad idea?
Reasons for it ending I think were a mix of cross ideas and misunderstandings about timings - he wants kids, I’ve said I wanted to wait a bit longer and I think he’s taken that to mean that I don’t want any with him. I wanted to meet up with him so we could have a chance to talk things through and know what each other wants. He didn’t really give me a chance to talk about it before just ended it because he said he wants to be with someone he can have kids with.
I’m fully prepared for him saying no to meeting up and no to giving things a try if he wants different things to me but I think it’s worth giving it a chance. Should I ask him or leave it?