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babayjane67 · 25/06/2019 15:56

Hi all
I posted on here 3 months ago about probs my dp&I are having.i don't know how to link to my previous post sorry but it was called '&so it goes on!'
Not alot has changed really since our talk.the communication hasnt really improved.he talks more but usually if it's about a subject HE likes or wants to talk about it or if we're watching a quiz show.
He also hasn't got anymore demonstrative either really.no show of affection.i get a kiss good morning if he's home or a in the evening if he goes to bed before me but still not if we go together!
Still doesn't take responsibility for anything he does or admits he's in the wrong or says sorry for anything.
Earlier today he accidentally hurt my finger with the back door as he was coming in with some shopping he got on way home.i went to open the door to let him in as he flung it open!my finger got pushed back&it really hurt like hell! He just said what have u done? I said you pushed the door as I was trying to open it for you.he asked about 3 times what I'd done&after the third time I shouted what had happened &he just dumped the shopping on the floor &stormed off into the front room!I shouted at him saying well you could have said sorry or something rather than just storm off! He ignored me the rest of the morning til I said I'm going to work now.he said see you later like nothing had happened!
It's my birthday coming&we are going abroad in holiday soon.i dont really know if I wanna go or not.i go between wanting to&not!
Seems like our talk hasn't really sorted anything out&I don't know what to do next.

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ImMeantToBeWorking · 25/06/2019 16:37

I can't find your previous post (maybe you could post the link here?) but to be honest, from what your post here says, if this is a continuous thing I think you should walk away. It seems like he has checked out of the relationship, and he has no respect for you.

Sorry OP.

babayjane67 · 25/06/2019 16:48

Thanks for yr reply immeant.i don't know how to link the post I'm afraid.
He's always been like this to a certain extent.hes ungrateful,never says please or thankyou for anything well very rarely.
We've been together 12 yes&have a 10yr old DD.plus debts that will be hard to pay off on my own.its not easy but I don't know what to do really.

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babayjane67 · 25/06/2019 17:02

Toddman are u on?

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ImMeantToBeWorking · 25/06/2019 17:04

Are they joint debts? If so you are both responsible for them, but debts and a DD are not reasons to stay.

He is not a nice person and you deserve better!

babayjane67 · 25/06/2019 17:19

Most of them are in my name I think.hes paying all bar one out if his money.the other I have paid off out of mine.i only work pt.they should all be paid off by late next yr.
Our DD will be devastated as her&do are very close.shes always been a daddy's girl.
He isn't all bad he is good in alot if ways.i don't know!

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