Cheat ??

[Brightfuture2019]

I get accused of cheating constantly. 16 years together and I've never done anything.Yesterday afternoon he went out and didn't come home till tonight. Apparently stayed round someone called Alans. I don't know him... Then he went bed. How does this sound to others ?

He's guilty.

like cheating

I stay home and look after our daughter never go out maybe twice a year. He's out every single weekend. How do I catch him ?

Like he's played away or is playing mind games x

Check his phone ?

He accuses you of what he's actually doing.
"Alan" is probably more like Lana.

Picsinred I've said this to him in the past. He just says yeah that's what a cheat would say

Are you happy with him?

@happybunny007. I'm not happy no, I've had absolutely enough. I think I'm looking for reasons he's done something wrong donors easier to end it. I have a daughter though and it would break her.

It won’t break her.

It’s called projection. You can leave if you aren’t happy whether or not you have proof he has cheated.

Wow...epic diversion technique!!

It sounds old school but list what positives and negatives he brings to your life. If the only reason you can find for staying with him is your daughter then leave him-she'll have her own relationships in the future and even if she's upset now she will understand.

You don't need an excuse to end it. You go out twice a year and he's out weekly...yet you're accused of cheating.

Don't let this be the example of a relationship for your DD. It's damaging for them.

Why does he get to go out and you dont ?
Deffo go out this weekend with someone get the hair done and go

You don't need proof. You can finish it without it.

I've always thought the best way a cheat can deflect from their own behaviour is to accuse others of the very same behaviour.

I would suspect he's up to something. You don't need proof. The constant accusations and staying out all night are enough reason to end it.

With or without the cheating doesn't sound like a happy life in general. I don't have any advice just an observation. I hope everything works out for the best whatever you decide.

He is guilty