So my DH parents are here visiting us, they are staying for 3 months... our house is not huge, so I had to give up dc room for them and the dc are staying in our room with us...
I don’t have any my parents anymore and I’m only child, so dh never has to deal with anyone from my side...
I work from home, so all day I’m with them I do bearkfsdt, lunch dinner, take them out etc... all day with them as I’m at home... I don’t mind as they are very sweet...
When dh comes home he’s all over them talking to them, tending to them etc.. which I understand and appreciate as they wait all day for him... he takes them out, does whatever.. in all fairness he helps out with dcs and housework when he sees his mum doing something... we don’t want mil to do housework/ dinner...
But my dh doesn’t even speak to me, if he does he just snaps or just ignores me like I’m the hired help...
I work, do school run, entertain his parents and doesn’t even bother asking how I am... I feel invisible... I’m doing everything for him and he can’t even show appreciation... I’m so fed up...I feel like I have no place in his life now that his parents are here... his dad only speaks to me when he’s not around... in evening / weekend its like I don’t exsist.. I just feel like a doormat at the moment