So I luckily found out this guy I dated years ago is a woman beater and very emotionally abusive. He is still on my Facebook and have seen him in 5-6 new relationships within the last 6 months he love bombs them at first holidays gifts etc then deletes the posts until the next girl he finds. He is very wealthy and comes across as such a sweet person so I can see how these women are drawn in.
A little back story...
I was out on a date with him (we only had 3 dates) and I sent a picture of him to my friend who luckily was with her cousin at the time who was really shocked to recognise him and she called me and told me to go outside so she could talk to me. Turns out they were together a year or so before and he used to hit her, was controlling abusive and he had a drug problem. I went back inside and asked if he knew a girl with her name and that she was my friends cousin and he grabbed my wrist tight and said whatever she said to you it’s all lies she is the abusive one don’t listen to anything she says (I hadn’t mentioned anything she said to me) I snatched my wrist back and said that will be the first and last time you ever put your hands on me and walked out.
He then ended up with a girl who I know from works friend (yes he gets around) I told her what I knew about him but not sure if she ever told her friend or not. He proposed to her after a month completely love bombed her with a new car, gifts, holidays etc then he apparently started taking drugs turned crazy on her and she had to go to a&e and have stitches in her finger as he tried to bite the engagement ring off her finger.
No idea why he’s still on my Facebook didn’t even realise he was on there until earlier this year as I don’t use it but I’ve seen he’s been dating a woman with 2 children for the last few months he’s love bombing her paid for her to have her teeth done, expensive holidays, gifts etc her Facebook is open as looks like she sell juice plus or another networking scheme and she is posting saying how in love she is and how lucky she is etc. I don’t know her but I feel like I should warn her but I doubt she would believe me? What should I do? Would you message her? I don’t want her to think I’m just some crazy person who dated him messaging her as he will obviously deny everything?!