Ok a few weeks ago I told my partner of 3 years that I wanted a break. Sometimes we were arguing lots - quite aggressively - he would ask me to send him my location so he knew where I was, ask me to tell him the names of people I work with. But sometimes we would get on, like now, laughing lots, sex, and being kind. He is handsome and intimatcy is great. But there are things that kinda worry me, like he is 5 figure sum in debt with no pension, hes not the brightest of people and I dont really enjoy spending time with his friends, I feel awkward as they are 10-15 years older than me. He also has a daughter, which is fine, but sometimes I struggle with it. We dont have any similar interests apart from cycling and good food.
Now here's the catch. When I was wanting a break I got platonicaly close to a guy who I have never met - just social media. We have been friends/followers for about a year. He has just come out of a relationship. I have entered a competition and he has also entered so we booked accommodation at the same hotel - different rooms of course as I've not met him. But we have a lot in common, this is how we met on social media. He is good looking, clever and has a very good job which I highly doubt he is 5 figures in debt and we message most days. A future would be better without so much debt.
My family dont really like my current partner - but they also havent had much chance to get to know him as we live about 3 hours from them.
Am I already cheating? What do I do?