I may just be creating an issue out of nothing, but I wonder if anyone else feels this way. My boyfriend is truly a lovely man, very generous and helpful around the house, very considerate of me etc.
However I increasingly don’t feel ‘seen’ or like my true self is known - I have a sense that he’s in love with an idea of me and the real me is just underneath. I can be myself at home in the sense that I can walk around in an old dressing gown looking like shit, so I don’t mean it in that way - only that I feel I have lost parts of myself since being with him and there is another side of me. Wasn’t always like this and don’t know what’s changed. Anyone?