What am I supposed to do when the only thing that will stop us from splitting up is to have sex? I just don't want to. I haven't wanted to for years but have done it because I know I have to. Over the last three months, I have had health problems, a gynae operation, major work issues, anxiety and DC doing GCSEs. I'm exhausted, stressed and menopausal and sex is the very last thing I want to do. The gynae problems have left me fearful of sex too. My DP has been understanding but this is now coming to an end and I know he is hurt by my lack of interest. He has been talking about leaving so this morning I told him to go if he needs to. There is only one solution and that is that we have sex. I can't face it so I guess we need to split up. It's not what we want but I can't see any other solution apart from me just "getting on with it". I have a background of abuse and this is something I just can't do.
Any advice please because I'm at my wit's end with it. Thanks