My previous posts were in relation to the horrible comments my husband made about our sex life
- I was a sack of potatoes
- at least his ex got on top.
Our relationship always had the same issue. The amount of time he spent working. We have 3 beautiful children and have just come back from our first family holiday which was amazing.
Over the years I have told him that I'm really lonely in our marriage and would love for him to be home a little more or at come home at a reasonable time not the normal 07.30 -23.00 day.
It generally goes well for 2 weeks max but then back to the norm. He always puts people over us and will do things for others at the drop of a hat, where I'm left asking for months to get a small shelf hung.
The holiday was lovely and I really enjoyed our time together. So wen we got back I asked him to cut his hours and enjoy our family. Well he lost the head. He refused to give up his passion of working a 2nd job in his garage. We don't need him to work 2 jobs. He said I was controlling him and tryibgbto stop him seeing his parents (garage is located in there yard).
It couldn't be further from the truth. I would never do that.😔 he told me.he is happy, I'm the 1 that's not so I could find some1 else but he's not changing. On hols my daughter made a comment that cut really deep, her dad said we did do something together as we don't spend time together, her response was sure I don't no wat ur saying u don't want to spend time with her either.
I was broken. We are in seperate rooms now.
Feeling lost. I've avoided him since our argument the other nite, until last nite he came into the room and I could tell he was feeling things by the sound of his voice.
I try so hard to spend time and always willing but I dunno maybe it is me.😔