Hi. So, been married a decade. One lovely dd. Lost my Dad 4 years ago. Mum terminally ill and struggling to walk after several falls and is dialysis patient.
Drove DH to see his parents today. Made him special bfast and got our dd to give it to him. Got him some gifts and got dd to give them to him. Ended up with my Mum taggin along as her temple event got cancelled. Got to in laws home. He barely spoke to me or her. Went to cafe. He didnt say one word to me or my Mum. Then told we were all going park by MIL. I knew this would be struggle. He left cafe without saying a word to me and went off with some of his fam. I called after him and he ignored me. Then eventually he turned round. I told him Mum cant go park as its cold and she needs a rest and cant walk due to severe knee injury. He went into a strop and said it was up to dd what happened and she said she wanted to go park. I said get bus back. He got in a strop. So I drove Mum to park. She walked a little but it was a struggle. She held onto me the whole walk to stop her falling. Stumbled twice. I went and got car and told hubby I was going and so if he wants to get driven home he needs to leave now as there was nowhere to park and Mum was shivering in wind. He left in a huff. Only my SIL and little nephew came to say bye to us. Hubby asked if I was ok once Id driven him home and dropped Mum. I said no. I have a slipped disc and am in pain and you have hardly said one word to me all day. He said I had been emotionally abusive to him all day and expect him to ignore his family over me when im with him. I said if thats the case why did I drive you to see them? He didnt acknowledge me once all afternoon. He was then all sweetness and light when we got home. Yesterday he went to bed early even tho he promised he would watch a film with me. The only time he is affectionate is when he wants sex. I have had enough. He cant drive cos hes epileptic but I try and I am in pain and I have had enough. I feel he doesnt care at all. We will argue. He will never say sorry and always act nice and like nothing has happened after. I want to leave. But dont want to break up family and hurt my girl x