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How do I handle this

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ladyflower23 · 16/06/2019 09:59

At a party last night and song that is renowned for being 'my song' came on. Mutual friend of me and DH grabbed me and said that i needed to be in the middle of the floor for this one so everyone could see me. So he pulled off onto the centre of the dance floor. When the song finished I said we'd better go back over to the others. When we got back DH shoved me and shouted something at me then stormed off. I went after him and he said I'd made him look like an idiot and he knew I'd been after mutual friend for months. I haven't he's married to my friend! It was so weird and this morning we're not talking to each other. I don't think I did anything wrong and I'm really embarrassed about the way DH treated me in front of everyone else. I don't know what to say to him. Does he have a point? I don't think dancing with another man is wrong when it's a long-standing friend. It wasn't sexy dancing!

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HennyPennyHorror · 16/06/2019 10:01

What's the song?

SimonJT · 16/06/2019 10:04

Is he usually that jealous and controlling?

ladyflower23 · 16/06/2019 10:08

No he's not controlling at all! There have been 2 other instances of him getting jealous in our whole relationship and we've been together a long time. Mind you I never really give him reason so be jealous.

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OneFootintheRave · 16/06/2019 10:28

He clearly thinks something is going on with you and mutual friend. I would confront him calmly but firmly right now.

Firstly, who the hell does he think he is! Shoving you? This is totally unacceptable. If he thinks something is wrong he needs to speak about it with you like an adult.

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