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Relationship problems to say the least

7 replies

Sandrabennet · 13/06/2019 23:31

Hi there,

I have two boys 3 and 1 and currently living with my partner. We been going out for 5 years and only last year I found out he had a female friend. That’s not all 😒 She’s a type of woman to sleep around and last year she was involved in assisting with a murder because she was sleeping with the murderer. It was all over Facebook because she is really known to the community and the one that got killed she grew up with this man and that’s why everyone hates her.

Anyway I noticed my partner was acting rather strange and I seen numbers on the phone bill who he talked to her regularly. I confronted about this and he said he was just supporting her through the case because she was there for him years before I knew him. I was shocked because why would you get involved in someone like this. I found loads of text and calls on phone bill.

This woman friend told me she sleeps around and she has been sleeping with my partner for years even when he was with his ex he was seeing her and she was hoping to become his woman after he left his ex. When I meet him he said he didn’t have any one and asked to start a family. This woman’s friend said she cried when she found out I was pregnant. My partner said he never slept with this woman during our relationship and her friend is telling lies. This woman had pictures of me in her phone and adding me on Facebook and all sorts. I didn’t know who she was!
My partner said he will never speak to her again but since then all we do is argue. My partner even told her we’re married and we’re not. Anyway she’s in prison now and he stop all Contact with her. He says he loves me and wants to marry me but I don’t want to marry him because of this situation.

All we do is argue. This friend of hers had no reason to lie and the woman will be out end of year. I have kicked my partner out and I have tried to make things work but this I can’t let go.

OP posts:
Lefty1 · 13/06/2019 23:48

I think the sooner you ditch this idiot the quicker you start to heal. Bottom line is he is untrustworthy, you deserve more , don’t sell yourself short!
This other woman sounds like a nutter but I don’t think she’d go to all these efforts of lie to her friend about it all.
Walk away from this craziness and focus on your future happy life with your little ones Flowers

IS the house rented or with a mortgage? If a mortgage , is it in both of your names ?
Sorry you’re going through this OP, what a cunt he is ! X

Sandrabennet · 13/06/2019 23:52

It’s Rent he’s paying it at the moment. I’m just shocked how messy this is. What a walking disgrace! At this point I don’t trust no one not even this woman because I think what’s her motives. They grew up together the crazy woman and her friend that told me all this.

OP posts:
Lefty1 · 14/06/2019 00:18

Well it seems a lot of effort to go to to make up something when you’ve already seen that they’ve been messaging. You know deep down op what’s going on here x

Sandrabennet · 14/06/2019 00:28

Something don’t sit right and he’s says it’s lies until he’s blue in the face.

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PickAChew · 14/06/2019 00:39

Even with kids, you are free to walk away from his drama.

1forAll74 · 14/06/2019 01:53

This sounds like a horrible scenario to be surrounded by.just as well you have your partner gone now. You need a more peaceful life now,for yourself and your little ones.

Reflexella · 14/06/2019 04:46

It sounds like a lot of drama.

Out of interest, how did she assist in a murder by sleeping with the murderer? - did she provide an alibi?

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