I've been with my boyfriend over four years now and have a child from a previous relationship, my Childs dad has never been in the picture (mainly due to DV and he didn't want to be a dad) and my current partner stepped into the role from her being six months old. My partner moved in almost a year ago, however we barely spend any time together now. He is either out in the evenings or most weekends, or in the office upstairs on the computer. When we first got together he was so excited and couldn't wait for us all to be a family, and even asked if I'd be willing to have more children in the future as he wanted a large family. I was absolutely thrilled and took things slow at first just to be cautious but every once in awhile it's still remind me that he'd like to start a family in the future. As he had not mentioned it in awhile and I was looking at getting rid of some of my daughters clothes, I sat him down and asked him honestly if you'd still like to have children in the future and his answer was no. I was absolutely devastated as I've had my heart set on having a Big family. A few months since that conversation have passed and we barely see him or spend time with him as he prefers to be out with his friends. I really don't know what to do, I feel like I'm on my own as he doesn't return until late at night or doesn't speak to me at all in the evening. I do all the jobs as well as going to work five days a week and the school run as well as everything else in the house - this evening includes doing all of his washing his tidying and sorting out his things to. I'm at my wits end and just feel trapped in a relationship where I can't see a future. I want to sit down and talk to him about it but I don't know what to say - please help?!