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He’s on pof

13 replies

Helpmexoxo · 12/06/2019 11:02

I know he is on pof
He has a history of it......
I know he downloaded the app 2 days ago I checked in the App Store
How do I check if his email has been signed up to it??? Or how do I find his profile

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Shoxfordian · 12/06/2019 11:14

If you know then why do you need more proof? Dump him

ISmellBabies · 12/06/2019 11:16

Why waste your time? Just ditch him.

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Helpmexoxo · 12/06/2019 11:24

I want to know what he’s doing
We have a child together etc it doesn’t feel easy to leave him
I don’t know why I haven’t left him already
He’s emotionally abusive
I don’t know I don’t understand myself
But I want proof

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Original poster
Helpmexoxo · 12/06/2019 11:25

He knows I know he downloaded it, his excuse was pathetic but says he didn’t make an account

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Original poster
Helpmexoxo · 12/06/2019 11:25

Obviously I don’t believe that so I want to find it

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Ginlinessisnexttogodliness · 12/06/2019 11:26

I don’t understand why you would want to bother.
Surely this tells you all you need to know.

GreatestShowUnicorn · 12/06/2019 11:26

Set up a fake profile for yourself

Scorpvenus1 · 12/06/2019 12:48

Why bother download it, just give him the boot

Seriously anything I ever learned is not to give men chances past showing one thing wrong.

There is never any good reason to be on pof no matter what the weasel says. Just leave and move on.

More of us women need to teach these types of men consequences then they fuck up. Too many of them don't even make effort for the lies. And they just accept it as better then being alone. But is it really better?

crappyday2018 · 12/06/2019 13:15

I would just dump him to but if you really insist on proof, if that is what it takes, either set up a fake profile and find a friend who is already signed up.

DianaT1969 · 12/06/2019 13:34

Why not download Tinder to your own phone and start chatting to other men? That'll show him.

Dollysuite · 12/06/2019 13:56

Don’t waste your time checking up on him and what he’s doing.
Spend your time working out how to get out of this relationship. He isn’t going to change.

Longdistance · 12/06/2019 13:56

He’s sounds a waste of time and space. LTB.

NameChangeNugget · 12/06/2019 14:02

You’ve got the answer you need. He’s using the internet for sexual hook ups. Why waste anymore headspace or energy on this tosser?

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