This just crashed, thankfully, cos it was rambling on as I’m trying to work stuff out.
Basically I posted a question on mn and a lot of you took time to tell me I was being abused.
Shock, but I think I knew, just trying not to.
Fed up w being this miserable, I called a counselling service I’d seen before for depression. They saw me next day!
They said, ‘frown waht you’ve told me, it is abuse and controlling behaviour. You need to realise this man doesn’t and never has loved you, it’s all about getting his own needs met. Go see woman’s aid’.
Going today, cos he said to, and he obviously knows his stuff.
Dh been super nice since row on thurs when he called me a bitch and 14 yr dd told him it was abuse. So the fog is descending again. Am I making it up? Have I put a slant on it?
He shouted at me A Lot when kids were younger.
Finally realised it was bad for kids and told him and he finally stopped. Still yells at me . Like very 6 months or so, Hess get v frustrated at job but then is nice for 6 months.
Sorry, I’ll stop going on, it’s 5 and I’ve been awake too long!
What do I do if they suggest leaving?
Aggh!