First time poster here hoping to calm my anxiety over this, my husband told me last week Friday that he had a msg from an old friend (women) that he used to work with, they apparently got on well, he told me she had a thing for him but apparently he made it clear he wasn't interested (knowing my husband it was done in a flirty way) anyway she messaged him told him she missed him he replyed asking if "she was drunk lol" then nothing,on Friday he told me he met with her and they chatted told me about the convo topic ext.... (it was late at night) he works nights, I know he would have called or text her to arrange to meet but I can't find anything on his phone, he has all other calls/texts made that day on his log but not her?? I'm wondering why he deleted it, I know it seems bad I'm checking up on him but I don't like being in situations where a girl will come up to me and say oh I know your husband we spoke on xyz we spoke about xyz (my husbands job means he meets loads of people every night) I just don't like being blindsighted by a female I hardly know, I don't think he cheated but I don't get why he would delete the evidence of the conversation, maybe he spoke with her in a way he knew I wouldn't like... ergh I don't know, either way it's playing on my mind and I don't want to ask because he will know I've snooped.
I'm just wondering if there is something I'm missing because I'm going into anxiety mode and thinking erationally about it xx