Sorry long post!!
I've just found out my husband of 10years had an affair with a woman from his work. It had been going on for 8 weeks when he apparently came to his senses and broke it off.
Of course being a woman scorned she then contacted me on Facebook and told me about what my husband had been up to after telling him she would let him tell me.
We have been together for 17 years and have 3 kids together so I WANT to try and work it out and while I know it will take time ( it's only been a day) I don't know how I'm ever going to forgive him!
He is very very remorseful and is making no excuses for what he has done and I do believe he will never do it again but I'm struggling to come to terms with it, to process it as I just feel so broken by his deceit.
I just want someone who has been through this to tell me we can get through it and how to start the process of healing.
Thank you if you've managed to make it this far x