It’s funny how the smallest of situations can make you realise you have had enough.
The argument was over my son not getting ready for school, and I had a go at my son because it’s an occurring problem. Instead of being a unit, my partner decided to gun for me. Calling me a bad mother for telling him off in front of our son.
After years of cheating, sulky behaviour and always living in the negative I have had enough. I actually fantasise about living in my own place. Not coming down the stairs worrying what mood he is going to be in.
We have three kids together all under 7 and one with a disability (he doesn’t go to any appts) so it won’t be easy. I know he won’t believe but I’m going to do it. I sent him a text message this morning informing him, that I would be making new arrangements for me and the kids to live. Not to speak to me unless really needed. He hasn’t read it and I sent to him this morning.
I can tell this isn’t going to unfold nicely. He owns the house and we aren’t married. Wish me luck!