What do you do when you can no longer co-parent?

[2boysmummyxx]

Has any one got any advice on what happens when you can no longer co-parent due to my ex having too much bitter feelings towards me ‘giving up on us’ it’s been 10 months now, feels like I’ve been going through hell. I’ve just constantly been made to feel bad for everything I do.. I just can’t co parent anymore! I’m constantly being put down about every single section of my life and he has no right to do so.

For now I have changed my number and asked my childminder to communicate between us and to drop off the boys there and pick them up there but that is only obviously short term.

So how do I go about this long term

You parallel parent. Google for more details.

Remember that what matters is DC relationship with the other parent and not yours. You concentrate on your parenting in your time and he concentrates on his. You get separate parents’ evenings and you only communicate on a need to know basis. You both support DC in your own ways and concentrate on providing loving and warm and separate houses for DC when they are with you.