Is it bad enough to leave?

[Losttbh]

He calls me names when he's angry or stressed. Now we have a child together I just can't get over it bit don't want to break up our family if it be better to stay.
I have no money or many friends or family to really go it alone.

I'm so sorry, OP.

You are going to have to be forceful with the surgery.

"I am in an abusive marriage. I am concerned for my safety and mental health. I need medical assistance and counselling support to leave. I also want to disclose and document the abuse".

Bring notes. Sometimes it's hard to talk "off the cuff" when there is so much emotion and fear involved - your brain clogs and your mouth turns to cotton. Ask for a copy of the notes from the meeting. This is very, very important.