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Struggling with new relationship after previously being cheated on

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dtnoon · 06/06/2019 10:50

3 years ago I thought I was happily married, to cut a long story short he cheated on me and it completely broke me. I tried to make things work after because I wanted to keep my family together (we have a daughter together) I stayed for about a year and couldn't cope with it anymore so we split. I moved into my own house with my daughter and then after a while started a new relationship which has blossomed and I'm pregnant with my second child. My other half is a completely different person to my ex husband. He pays me so much attention and treats me and my daughter well. Everything is great, our sexlife is great and I feel like he's my soulmate. Only lately have I realised just how bad my previous relationship affected me. I am struggling quite bad with the demons he left me with in thinking my partner is going to cheat on me ( I don't bring these up in my relationship these are my own thoughts) I see an attractive woman when we are our together and I feel like he's thinking if only. My self worth is to the floor. I'm only 33, I work and I don't feel I am unattractive but I feel worthless. I feel like my thoughts are going to be the end of my relationship. When we aren't together I feel like he's doing things behind my back. I feel like I arent good enough and that I'm worthless. How do I move on from this?

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Mrsmummy90 · 06/06/2019 11:02

I'd explain to him how you've been feeling just so that he knows what going on and can support you. I'd also recommend counselling to help you deal with what you went through x

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