Hi
Just asking for advice.
My ex left for OW over 3 years ago. I started divorce proceedings not long after he left. I was devastated he left after 20 plus years of marriage and our children were equally upset.
First 18 months I was a wreck but have picked myself up and I’m moving onwards and upwards . BUT.......
Fast forward to present date , I have tried to get him to negotiate via solicitor for past three years and my bill is now at 9 k including pension report for pension sharing .
He has dragged his feet all the way. He is a big earner and his pension is worth a lot .
As I was getting no where with negotiations, he wouldn’t use mediation companies , I felt I had no choice but to take case into court with court date later this month.
I feel so low and feel as if I’ve taken so many steps backwards.
I can’t stop crying , not sleeping and generally feeling despair 😩
Just wondered if any ladies have had similar experiences that they could share as I feel I’m sinking and will be a wreck as the date draws nearer for the first hearing .
Any advise on how to face this and feel more positive