I have been asked out on a date - really random and unexpected actually. I know him from school. See him now and again as we live close by. He comments on my Facebook quite a bit and my sister jokes he likes me. Got chatting about a month ago, only basic hello how are you kinda stuff. I would never have even contemplated it (only cos I don't date) but my sister thinks I should give him a chance. Only because she met her now fiance through a works thing. They knew eachother a year before going out. She said it 'grew'. Now getting married next year after 6 years together. How do you know you don't fancy him until you date him, she says. Well, I don't know, I can't remember the last time I fancied someome. I know its how someone makes you feel but surely there has to be a 'spark' or something like that!!