This isn't something that has happened to me but just wondering what others opinions are. I saw a friend at the weekend and we got talking about cheating and what our boundaries are as another friend is currently going through a divorce due to her DH cheating.
Friend was talking about how her DH is quite flirty and revealed that she had found messages between him and a colleague a couple of years ago. Apparently late night emails going on for a few weeks, heavy flirting with talk about meeting up outside of work and her DH had asked the colleague to send him photos. She had refused and the messages apparently trailed off.
Friend was quite flippant about it and said it was clear that nothing had happened and he no longer works with her so she wasn’t too bothered but this would be a massive thing for me and not sure it’s something I could forgive. Even if there was no talk about meeting up, asking someone he saw everyday for photos would be bad enough.
Obviously friend and I have different ideas about this but what would you think if this was your DH?