Right, I need a second opinion on what's going on. After 2 months of no contact ex suddenly got back in touch to let me know "he missed me".
Since we didn't manage to have a final conversation (see one of my previous posts, but basically we just ended up not messaging each other anymore) I proposed to meet up. We meet up for dinner last Tuesday and apparently, he was taken aback by me telling him the reason I have decided not to be in touch anymore is that he couldn't even be arsed to "decide" whether he wanted to go on a booked holiday with me or not, and he was treating me like I wasn't a priority in his life. So taken aback that he needed to think about things to process them. Well, we've decided we should keep talking but basically, he has been "too busy" since last Tuesday!! We have some small talk chat during the day and every time we agree we need to talk in the evening but then, he falls asleep, goes out, he needs to work or he replies to my message when I am ready for bed. Yesterday I got fed up and stop replying to his chit chat when he mentioned at 8 pm he still had 45 minutes worth of work (just to clarify he is not a neurosurgeon and he has a normal Monday to Friday office job, although at a managerial level so he sometimes does some more work at weekends). AIBU to think that if this is was a priority for him he would find the time to have a frank conversation about why our relationship ended? I feel like he is taking me for a ride and I should just block him!
I appreciate people can be busy, but the way he cancels or forgets short notice we were supposed to have a chat makes me feel he is behaving exactly how he was behaving towards the end: totally un-arsed and ready to point out it was me exaggerating and being unsupportive of all the things going on in his life...