Ive been with a girl from feb 2017 until now (june 2019).
I need advice urgently.
Met a girl after 3 months moved in together all good until november 2018 i started noticing her hiding he phone from me constantly. I made a fuss about it and she said its her private item. I left it but started to get paranoid. She use to go out to friends every other weekend and some times stay round the night. I didnt suspect anything as i trusted her. In november 2018 I went on the pc and her google account was logged in... so naturally i checked her maps timeline. To my surprise i found out she stayed in a hotel on the other side of london and was in camden all day, on another occasion she visited a night club. She went to different pubs on the weekends. Etc etc all of this i did not even know. I checked her google pics and again to my surprise different pics with friends out etc... but what was worrying to me was she had been speaking to this one guy from facebook on private messnger via phone and text and he had he number. She print screened that she had a phone call with the time on it for 24 mins and another one for 15 minutes. I screenshots of her phone screen with pics of 2 of her exs that she was speaking to. I checked the facebook of the guy that she was speaking with from july 2018-november 2018 and he had a white t shirt with a certain distinguished logo and i found a picture from the day she went to the hotel/camden with 2 pint glasses and this same t shirt but no picture of the faces.
Now when i saw all of this i confronted her. I asked what is all of this. She said she never stayed in a hotel. She said she never went to a night club. But there was pics and location of her phone. Etc. Eventually she said a couple who she knows come to london so she went with them randonly to camden to drink and because she got drunk she stayed with them in their hotel which is in kingston, on the other side of london which she happened to go into a pub there aswell. She said it was completely random. But on whatsalp that day she said to me she was seeing her friend in central london, i asked to see pics she said her memory was full and then apparently her friend begged her to stay round hers in ilford. Etc etc etc also on her pictures from september i found a google maps from home to kingston. Which shows me that she wasnt there randomly. And she pre arranged all of this. There is so much more details i want to add. Please any comments or advice would be greatly apreciated. Plus she is living in my flat at the moment and her younger brother in one of the bedrooms. What shall i do?