I’m really needing some unbiased opinions in my relationship.
I’ve been married only around 1.5 years and we have an 11 month old baby together.
We argue constantly about all sorts, from my raising my son (14, from a previous relationship) to finance to household chores. It’s constant and has been going on for practically the whole relationship. My husband is moody and grumpy all the time and the atmosphere in the house is always down IMO.
We’ve had yet another fall out and he’s gone to stay at his mothers. We have a family holiday booked at the end of July and I don’t know what to do. Try and fix it for the mean time and stagger on till the holiday is done, or leave him for good and go abroad myself with the two kids.
Or split and still try go a family holiday.
Cancel the holiday and my son be really disappointed?
I’m so confused, angry, maybe not being rational but I’m sick to death of fighting, making up and going on the same merrygo round.
I feel like I’ve tried and tried and there are lot of bigger issues, like financial infidelity so my focus on a holiday probably seems trivial in comparison to breaking up our home. I don’t even know if that’s what I should do, or try again for the millionth time. HELP a sister out with some straight talking, advice or where to start with this?