Just looking for advice:
There's a DH family occasion coming up soon and I have - from social media - found out that DH's ex before me - whom he will not speak much about - remains in contact with his sister. The ex will not be at the family occasion however her best friend will be as she is friends with DH sister, who has invited her along.
My point in all this is that nothing was said to me, I found out from social media posts. And when I mentioned that SIL was bringing friends along he said nothing despite me showing him the post - so he knew who it was. Then when I said "ooh it's your ex's friend" he claimed he didn't know. When speaking about it further he told me he had met this girl once.... and that he didn't mention anything to me because he thought I'd never find out!
I've tried to tell him that I don't care who this person is, that I have no issue with his ex etc but that the issue is he's not been upfront and combined with him getting quite agitated when anything to do with his ex is mentioned - and I mean even in passing, when discussing anything trivial or light-hearted - that's what's made me feel... well unsettled.
Also from stuff that he's now said it's clear he has discussed this friend with his sister some time ago, so I feel like things have been said behind my back. And I don't understand why this friend has been invited to a very small family occasion.
Am I being unreasonable?