How do I start to move

[pinkginandlemonade]

We are coming to the end of our rocky relationship.

We just can't get things to work. He's become bitter and nasty and I've become resentful.

We have 2 dc.
He owns the house. And pretty much everything in it.

I've been sahm (not through choice but through redundancy and then struggling to find a decent job after dc2)

What do I do. I have nothing and no one.

Are you married? That will make all the difference.

If you're not married, you probably have nothing.

Are you working?

Not married no so aware I have no rights over anything. Just how it's happened. Not how it was planned.

No not working as made redundant and then became sahm.

I've contacted the council to see if they can help

Can I ask which county you live in OP? Hopefully it's one with plenty of council property or Housing Association property. It will be fine. They will at the very least get you temporary accommodation and also usually help people pay deposits on private rentals if no council property available.

@HennyPennyHorror I am in the UK

No I wanted to know which COUNTY you're in OP. It makes a difference when applying for properties.

@HennyPennyHorror oh sorry! Should pay attention! Warwickshire

Could you look at getting back to work before you move? Also, with 2 young kids you may be allowed to stay in the house. Have you discussed with him how you would both want to do it custody and whether you could stay at the house etc?

@Musti that won't ever happen it's his house and he likes to make sure I know it

I am starting to get back into work as self employed but no income from it yet