Hi ladies would it be possible for some advice please!
I've come to a point in my relationship where the spark isn't as it was in the beginning. Ok I understand that there are reasons that contribute toward this feeling such as we have two three year and five month old girls, the eldest attends nursery daily as well as classes during the week such as dance, gym ect.. we also have two dogs that are walked daily and my partners working 6 sometimes 7 days a week. I do my best to be the best mother and partner I know to be, I ensure the house is tidy, clothes are clean for work and nursery, ensuring time with the girls to help with progression towards there development, promoting family time by having food on the table when my partner returns from work to allow us all to sit at the table to connect.
I believe I am doing a good job but what I'm lacking now since becoming a "busy mum" is the intensity, the heat and passion in our relationship. I don't second guess he loves me however for a relationship to last you also need lust, Desiree, playfulness.. basically the spark!
I have realised that I do not know how to reignite this spark. There doesn't seem to be enough hours in the day for us to become anything other than Mam and dad. I try to keep myself well presented by doing my hair, makeup and dress tidy daily but being honest he doesn't batter an eyelid
Please help ladies any advice will be appreciated
Thanks! Xx