I split with the father of my DS in January this year. He's 4 year old and is well turned on and clever. I have currently started a new relationship with a work colleague.
My son has met previously at work and we have recently started to introduce him outside of work during weekend activities, however we do not do anything romantic on front of him; no kisses cuddles hand holding or anything so not to confuse him.
My son has taken very well to my new partner and often favours doing things with him over me. I want to be sure we are doing things in the best interest of my little boy however at times like this weekend when we have spent time together and it's been such a lovely weekend, it seems so sad to act like friends for the benefit of my son.
Anyone else been on this position that can offer advise. When and what times scales to introduce a new partner as a romantic partner not a friend.
How do you explain is to a 4 year old. He already knows mummy and daddy aren't together we don't live together anymore and even said we aren't good together (which shocked me as our relationship wasn't an argumentative one at all, I just was not longer attracted to him or in love with him)
Any advise or best ways forward would be greatly appreciated