I think my partner of almost three years may have been married before and not told me

[Petals23]

Nothing before today to suggest this, but earlier today we were watching a programme about couples keeping secrets. I jokingly said have you any big secrets like you've been married before or something? His reply, twice, was "who knows"? Maybe I forgot to tell you. " My reply was "you were not, sure that'd be a huge thing. " Then subject changed. This was all said in a light hearted way, but it's got me a bit worried!! What would people think?

Oh god youre actually married

@justforareply when you give notice of your intention to marry, you are asked that exact question. You are also asked if you have ever been known by any other name. You have to sign to say that everything you have told them is correct. Lying on a marriage license is perjury.

I was going to suggest Ancestry. Very easy to check once you know your way around.

Well if it matters what are you going to do about it?
Ask him, investigate him , realise that this is not a question you should be pondering in a healthy relationship or just let it be?

This thread has to be a wind-up.

No one could work that hard to manufacture drama and mystery in their life and have it still be so bloody dull.

@RiversDisguise haha

He was probably quiet after because you were watching TV??

You're being absurd, but an AS suggests this is not the first time you make issues out of nothing. You sound like handwork.

Get a grip, perhaps you and @ChristmasFluff could get one together because her response to you is just as ridiculous.

Your anxiety is the issue here, not your boyfriend. I'd go back to the GP.

What?id have the sane reaction if my partner asked me this!!!( no, not been married before).

Can't understand why he didn't just say "no" after I'd asked him a couple of times

What do you mean a couple of times?
No wonder he’s had this reaction.

The issue is, you have no sense of humour.

It was about a month before I met my exH(no skype, smartphones, etc) and we had a joke about me really being a man. and he'd joke about being disappointed I wasn't really a man.

Wonder what he'd write if he created a thread about you ...