I really don't like my sister, in fact if I'd never see her again that'd make me really happy. Every time I see her so end up in tears. She's nosey and think that all of the advice she gives is always right. I can't stand her attitude and I know she'll never change. She's also very strange with money (to the point of denying some inheritance to my mum as it wasn't in the will, but my uncle (her brother) told her something else). She recently had a baby we were chatting and then talked about my mum's visit when mine is due (in November). It all went downhill from there and well I went back to the same place of never wanting to see her again. I'm supposed to go and visit her in Switzerland but at £700 for 4 days I simply cannot afford it. My husband who is lovely and woke up to comfort me while I am as crying in the wee hours had the idea of sending her a letter and something for the baby. What would you include? I guess a babygrow some bottles and a letter. I still don't know what to include in it but I guess for the sake of both babies she should try to respect my views and that if she has nothing positive to say, to simply not say it. Any other ideas?